Can it work beween me and my boyff?

I think that you guys sound like you have great chemistry. It's hard to stay a virgin until marriage in today's society and it could be years before you ever get married, but I I totally respect your choice. If he really likes you I think he should respect that choice, too. If you do break your vow, it's up to you how to handle it, because it's not going to affect anyone else but yourself. If you think you can still respect yourself after losing your virginity, then you'll be fine. And falling in love is a good thing! Why would that be a problem? Everyone has their stuff, and if he can accept your personal vow, then you should accept his sexual past. Having sex is just about being ready and making sure it's with the person you love the most. It will happen when it's supposed to happen. Don't over-think it but don't let him talk you into something you don't want to do either.