GIRLS, HOW SHOULD A GUY BE IN BED?

if it desont mean much and its like friends with benefits or a one night stand then i like it a bit rough but if its with say a long term boyfriend i like him to make me feel special by being romantic in bed and a bit playfull to make it fun too :) its called 'making love' for a reason,if im in love with them i want to be making love (romantic) but if im not in love with them its just sex for pleasure.